After having a bundle of my own, I can truly appreciate the phrase "It takes a village to raise a child". One of the things I miss is just wanting to be on my own for awhile. I remember someone once told me that when they want a bit of 'me' time they would go and take a shower whether they wanted to or not... then I didn't understand, now..well now is a different story.
The good times are good..the giggling, laughing, learning and playing but with the good times come the rough...the whinging, the moaning, the non-sleeping, the non-napping etc.
So I suppose with a village around it would be much easier, to do everything without a young 'un hanging off your hip all the time (minus the two half hours he does nap in the day).
We live in isolated environments a lot of the time, socialising has to be done actively...the type of person I am socialising has to be thrust upon me so it can get a bit baby brained at times. The house is a mess, no decent conversation for hours on end, no good nights sleep in sight, clothes to wash, laundry to put away, hair full of grease...all of this and you will find a person not fit to be in company.
I applaud all those who have more than two children...actually even more than one..in my eyes you are Superwomen or you must really enjoy not sleeping.
Hopefully will be getting a full nights sleep sometime in the next few months, weeks or even days (she says rather optimistically) until then I leave you with my fog filled brain.
Awwwww rash .. yes been there .. thought why oh why am I putting myself through this ... ? Then I did it a 2nd and 3rd time .. lol
ReplyDeleteThe "fog filled brain" although will clear .. that "fog" will always linger at the back of ur head ...
Awwwww rash .. yes been there .. thought why oh why am I putting myself through this ... ? Then I did it a 2nd and 3rd time .. lol
ReplyDeleteThe "fog filled brain" although will clear .. that "fog" will always linger at the back of ur head ...